Wednesday, November 19, 2008

the week the blog stood still


it's been a while since i let a week pass between posts. i've missed being here. i don't know or think that it has been a lack of time, necessarily, to blame. maybe just a lack of computer time. yeah, we'll go with that.

whatever the case, nothing too revolutionary has happened in this world of mine between my boasting about something that no reader gives a crap about and this morning. i'm on a ridiculously long streak of consecutive days that i've had to go to the store. i know, i know. cry me a river. most of my extra attention has been pointed toward the arrival of our new point-of-sale system. we are only nine years late, but, as of monday, pet supplies "plus" roebuck has reached a 21st-century level of technology. the new stuff is fun. we have all been excited about it. it's felt a little like an early christmas present. as with any change, there have been headaches accompanied by the usual anxiety. that said, so far, so good. all signs point toward me not having to be present at all on saturday. that makes me happy. too bad there isn't a meaningful football game on 'til 700 that night. that's ok. maybe the family and i can do something fun.

let's see. what else? the church task force met again this past sunday. we actually took our first productive step after three meetings of brainstorming/discussion/conversation and have decided to ask the church, corporate, if they'd be interested in having a hispanic mission located on our grounds. what's that you ask??? you thought we already had a hispanic ministry/mission/whatever located on our grounds? well, technically, you are correct. we have. for a number of years. crazy thing, though. the church was never really asked about it. it just, kind of, happened. and for months on top of months, the church has been asked to take on a "support the troops, not the war" mentality with the whole thing. so, we came to a novel and consensus place. why don't we ask the church if this is something that we really want to do? sounds like a good place to start. or re-start. i don't know if we can, realistically, find our way back to the ground floor of this matter. there has been too much confusion and too many hurt feelings for biases and subjectivity to be left at the door. but, at least, the church will have her say. personally, i think it will be a fascinating conversation. one that i think will depend too much on the current financial standing of the church. but i do hope we are able to have an intelligent conversation about it and leave with a better understanding of where we, as a church, want to head.

hey? have y'all tackled that whole "communications"/structure/lack of vision thing that you've been pounding away at here for three years now?

um, not yet, but i hope that's coming next. so, that is kind of new and interesting.

let's see. what else? alabama won (and one) again. auburn lost. yada, yada, yada. my heart wants to explode thinking about a week from saturday.

hannah and mommy went to see high school musical 3 without me. don't tell anyone, but i am a little torn up about it.

sarah is finally licensed. thank. freaking. christ. oh yeah, and congratulations!!!

thanksgiving is nigh. dressing and coca-cola salad is too. god, i can't wait. i do get a teaser trailer to the big event tonight at church. that's pretty rad.

i guess that's about it for right now. sorry for the diary-ish entry. i might have more to say later. may be friday. either way, i am sure your day or week will be wrecked with anticipation.

7 comments:

Dolores Bunn said...

Kevin, This is the first time I have responded publicly to your blog. I do not understand why you would want to be the Lay Leader (note the word "leader") of a congregation that you seem to have so much contempt for. We have never gotten along. I do not know why you never wanted to have me around when i volunteered to help with the Youth, but I believe that has something to do with our strained relationship now. I have tried to listen to what you have to say. I seriosly doubt that you have any desire to listen to anybody that doesn't agree with you.
Dolores

kevin said...

you are sweet to waste your time reading, dolores. even moreso to take the time to comment.

i am a little confused, though. is your "contempt" comment directed at this post? or posts from the past? either way is fine. if i articulated this post in a way that you read contempt, well, that's on me. i guess i could tell you that that's not how the task force paragraph was intended. i was, actually, quite optimistic leaving the meeting sunday. but, that doesn't really matter, does it?

i wasn't aware that we had a strained relationship, but it's good to know that you feel that coming from your end.

you are right about one thing. i am horrible person to be around. when people disagree with me, i throw poop at them. especially kiker. i love throwing poop at kiker. and andy. i am disgusting. i am going to wallow in my filth.

thanks again.

Dolores Bunn said...

Go back and read your blog (out loud)since it's beginning. Listen to the words. Especially read the entries from the last few months. Maybe you didn't realize what was coming out. Or perhaps you are denying the contempt to yourself and or those of us that have read your blog. I will be working Sunday afternoon/night so I will Not be able to attend the Prayer/Healing Service. I will be there in spirit. This is something we as a congregation really need.

kevin said...

"maybe i didn't realize what was coming out"...

gotcha.

that clears the first comment up, so thank you. i would probably use the word "disappointment", but there is no question that contempt could very well be observed from many of the humc-tinged posts of the last three-plus years.

thanks again for reading!!!

Christina said...

Hah, welcome back to Blog-land.

Anonymous said...

You know if HUMC had about 50 more evil, horrible, full of contempt(that word was tossed around several times), poop throwers like Kevin then it might be a stronger church right now. Its so strange to look in from the outside and see people not recognizing someone who adores his church so much he speaks up and says the "unpopular" things in hope that people will may some changes for the better. Dolores while Kevin certainly doesn't need his oft abused friends to come to his defense, I know of nobody that I would want more on my "team", in my "corner" or leading my group than Kevin.

Dolores Bunn said...

Kiker, I don't know you, but I invite you to spend some time with us. Look from the inside then we can talk. I pray that we will come out of this stronger as a congregation.